Dance Moms vs. Abby Lee Miller

It all started in Pittsburg with one mean dance teacher, dramatize moms, and talented young dancers. Yup, it’s the well known ALDC of the hit reality series known as Dance Moms. In the beginning ratings were especially high but as the years go by and Maddy Zeigler’ s departure the most popular series actually started to spiral down. Hm, I wonder Why? Maddy was the star of the show and the main focus of the drama. but after her departure the producers thought it would be more interesting to still use “Maddie” as the focal point to start up even more drama. Starting with “Maddie’s replacement” and “Who will fill Maddie’s shoes and stand on top” well Kalani could easily have that title but of course there wouldn’t be drama.

After the series ended with the surprise return of Chloe and Christy on top of Abby Lee Miller’s legal issues. The producers wanted to leave us at a cliff hanger but here’s the thing….Abby is no longer working with Dance Moms not because of her hatred for Chloe and Christy but for the producers.  Apparently, the producers wanted it a certain way and Abby just couldn’t take it. So she quit. As for Dance Moms they are continuing the series with new dance teacher Cheryl of DWTS. Pretty cool but what about Abby? Well, Abby has a new show coming out but it’s still in the air. Interesting.

As my title states, I truly think there might be some legal issues coming soon because if you know hollywood they’ll bring Miller’s name and possibly degrade her and Miller herself might press for legal degrade of character. Hopefully that won’t happen but I firmly believe Abby was overwhelmed with the series on top of her going to jail. A lot to do before you serve time. But even though the show is about dance moms…Miller explains that the show made her look like the villian when truly she loved her students like they were her own children. As for the moms of Dance Moms everything of course was scripted but the effects of their hunger for fame derived them from the main focus and it’s the dancing. Seriously, save that drama for yo momma! Or how Abby puts it Save those tears for the pillow! Whatever.

The dancers Kendall K, Kalani, Brynn, Elliana, Lilliana, Cameron, and Nia are caught in the middle of chaos. Of course you know they are scripted too but rumors circled that Kendall and I believed she said on instagram that she’s leaving dance moms…I can’t foresee that but for sure Brynn as her mom posted a live video explaining why they are moving to bigger and better things or in my opinion sticking with Abby as seen on instagram. As for the rest is uncertain but definitely know that Chloe and Christy are back! So if your a dance moms fan then you’ll be excited for season 8. But if your me and see no point then you’ll enjoy Ellen’s new series “First Date” with Drew Barrymore!

Well, that’s it until next from your truly….

The Girl


Motorcycles and why I love them

Okay, usually I don’t write blogs like this but in this case I just couldn’t leave it.

As a young woman I’m tempted by many things one of which are motorcycles. You can’t get enough of the Yamaha, Harley Davidson, Honda, or especially European Sporters. But it’s the powerful sound of bike that just makes you want to jump on and ride like there is no tomorrow. Sadly for me motorcycles are a dream rather than reality. Financially, one could afford one but you would have to work for a well paid job with overtime benefits. Oh and don’t get me started on the insurance. Where was I? Oh! Why Motorcycles? What reason not! Motorcycles may be a hazardous but it’s just the freedom you get when riding by a car and you just feel like your flying. So mainly this blog isnt just about me ranting about motorcycles etc. But it’s basically why I love them with the pro and cons of my personal opinion. So here we go.

First, before purchasing a motorcycle find the “right fit for you” don’t dive into one because you want one. actually take the time to browse through your options first.  Now, I’m not going to start with pros and end this blog on a bad note but here we go.

Cons: I really hate to give motorcycles a con but it has to be done…Each day somewhere in the world a motorcyclist is killed either accidental or purposely. Yes, purposely. Some people get enough road rage that they seriously harm others. Not cool. But accidental is one of the top. There has been times that a motorcyclist was traveling at a good distance away from a car and they happen to toss a cigarette out and happens to land on the rider. In other cases miscaluation on the distant from rider to driver. In example one teen stopped at a red light and seen from a distant a motorcyclist and thought there was enough time. Wrong! You never know how fast the motorcycle is going! so poor rider got thrown from his bike and broke his neck and had serious injuries to him because of miscaluation. Basically, if you buy a bike just realize it’s just you out in the open. The second you start up your Harley or Ninja you automatically signed away your life. Each ride can be your last. So stay coutious. So why give a con for something you love? Well, many people buy motorcycles for self enjoyment but you need to have experience rather than jump on it. That’s my biggest concern. You have people who watched someone on YouTube or has a friend and automatically know how to ride. It’s not that easy and you need classes for it.

Pros: I can name a lot of pros but I don’t think you the reader would enjoy that. So, I guess lane splitting and simple enjoyment is a good enough pro. But it just won’t do. Motorcycles are addicting like drugs. It’s the adrenaline rush you get when riding 90 mph or greater while cars fly pass like nothing. The pros are simple. You ride for enjoyment because motorcycles are the meaning of enjoyment. But of course video blogging with your bike is definitely addicting and smart. You can’t go wrong with a motorcycle just be an experience yet safe rider.

Well, that’s pretty much all for now. Until next time.

The Girl

Of God And Men

For years I’ve been struggling to create a blog that was worth something to my creative thought process and I firmly believe Of God And Men will be the one.

For centuries we’ve been questioning whether or not God exists. We still question it to this day. I used to be one of those types that questioned everything even God. It probably started with my mother who was very religious and always played Christian music, read christian books, and of course prayed. So out of nature I rebelled against her urges to attend her life style and started to question everything about God. I believed at one point that many churches used God as a subject of escape from the harshness of the world which at that time found it to be rather annoying than productive. It wasn’t until I was much older that God found a way back into my life. What’s odd about it was actually during the most difficult time of my life.

I’m not doing a blog about God saving me but rather a blog about God vs Man… Since day one God has been in a losing battle to make man turn back around. Unfortunately, we fought him every step of the way and one by one we paid the ultimate price. If we haven’t already.  Since mankind is full of different beliefs I can see why it would be hard to come to terms with a being that is all good, all powerful, and all righteous who happens to get a virgin pregnant with a super baby that will shed blood for our sins. Yup, I can see the difficulty on that one. But we can question everything all we want and find solutions to everything but is it worth risking it all? You can live your life believing that there is no such thing and have doubts but what if your on your death bed, dying alone, seeing doctor’s shake their head because they can’t fix your problems. Who do you turn to? Yup, you guess it God. It’s a natural feeling to go to the very same being you’ve been fighting your whole life and die peacefully knowing he has your back.  It’s ironic how we battle something we don’t believe in yet in the end we longed for that something when we are at our worst.

In this story I’ve heard a million times and it still gives me chills…

“A man was laying in his bed dying he has been an atheist his whole life yet he believed in the santic worship and believed that heaven was just a myth. While his wife, children, and grandchildren came to say goodbye a fellow pastor decided to say goodbye as well even though he knew the man dislike his beliefs…When the man seen the pastor he wanted to yell at him but he was to weak to do anything and so the pastor read scripture to the man and finally the man said ” your God done this to me and for that I hate him..I rather be in hell than sit up there with the being that done this to me.” The pastor knodded and said ” believe in what you want to believe you’ll soon find out wether or not your Satan had fulfil his promise to you…” like clock work the man soon died with his wife crying holding her cross in her hand then the man lift himself up like he awaken from a nightmare and yelled ” I was wrong!” Finally the man pass away but everyone who was in that room that day swore that the dying man saw the one thing Satan couldn’t give him. A promise. “

Man, a being of its own accord that feels, thinks, and lives. God, a being of three beings with the power of life, destruction, and even creator or both the heavens and earth. These two subjects are at odds every day. Soon one will win and one will lose. When that time comes will man come to terms or will God decide enough is enough and break the cycle. Maybe our time has already started to click with mankind slowly fading into darkness…

The Girl



In today’s society very few men and women actually take the time to actually date outside the virtual world of text. You’re thinking to yourself “Okay, we all do that! So what?” and in which case most people will agree with you.  And because we are so use to that concept majority of relationships actually turn out bad for some. Maybe we should listen to Katy Perry’s new song “Changed to the rytham” since we are blinded by our screens. And evrything else.

Now when I first started the whole “dating scene”  in my mind I thought it was actually a good way to get over certain fears. Well, for John Doe it wasn’t that way. He was afraid to actually connect so he stuck to online. When John Doe met Jane he thought she was everything and she thought the same. But in the end things started to fall apart. Why? Well, in person they never really spoke to each other but rather they spoke to others. but online they spoke about their future of course it led to fights and sooner or later the relationship was gone. Was it John Doe fault?, Jane, or was it the failed connection they shared? Well, blame online for that. Why? Because no one can actually have a connection online because online you can create a world that is just like the movies but in reality… Well, leave it to hollywood for that.

So since it’s easier for some to connect that way and avoid the fear of actual dating. We need to let John Doe know that his ways are actually hurting him more than he thought. He’s setting himself up for failure rather than success. Poor John Doe. But the meaning of this blog is so people can understand that online dating may work for some but it’s not the best way to date or communicate with the opposite sex. That goes for you to girls! So try to leave the whole online scene and actually go for it. Personally, I find it easier to figure out someone by calling or hanging out. Why message someone that you like? Why don’t you get off this computer, phone, or tablet and get out there and socialize! So if you happen to be in John Doe’s situation then Change the pattern and put yourself outside the online scene. Trust me you’ll thank me later. Well, until next time. Stay true my friends. Peace.

The girl